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Internet Safety For Kids: How to Monitor Your Kids Online Activities

Imagine that you have a 14-year-old daughter. Perhaps you do, in fact. Do you know what she is doing online? Is there a possibility that she is corresponding with someone she shouldn’t be? Do you think you are watching the internet habits of your child(ren) closely enough?

A recent survey has found that almost 70 percent of teens report that they know how to hide what they do online, and about 80 percent of parents don’t know how to find out what their kids are doing.

This is absolutely frightening.

Some believe that monitoring their children’s online activities is spying, but this is actually called “parenting” and should be a key piece of your internet safety strategy for keeping your kids safe. Instead of looking at the internet as a right, parents should be looking at it as a privilege. There are too many bad guys out there preying on children and teens, and as a parent, you must take an active role in stopping this. Here are a few internet safety tips to help you protect your kids.

  • Spend time with your kids online; learn about their habits and who they are interacting with.
  • Put your computer in a high-traffic area of the home and set a time limit. If a child has their own laptop, only allow them to use it in certain areas of the home.
  • Teach children to recognize online behavior that is inappropriate.
  • Invest in software that allows you to control the sites your child visits.
  • Remind children to create only appropriate usernames, photographs, and to never reveal personal information to those online.
  • Make sure your child understands that you will be checking their devices for offending behavior without warning – and make sure you actually check them.
Internet Safety For Kids: How to Monitor Your Kids Online Activities
Internet Safety For Kids: How to Monitor Your Kids Online Activities

Software to Help You Monitor Your Children

As mentioned, it is a good idea to use software to monitor what your children are doing online. Here are some of the best:

  • SPY24 – This software allows you to limit screen time and app use on their mobile device. It is free, but only available for Android.
  • Trackidz – This software allows you to track which apps your kids are downloading, manage their time on mobile devices, and track location. The software alerts you when your child turns off their phone, and you can view your child’s contacts.
  • Pocket Guardian – With this software, you will get an alert when bullying, sexting, or inappropriate images are detected on your child’s mobile device.
  • VISR – To use VISR, you must have access to your child’s usernames and passwords. The software then analyzes emails and social media accounts for suspect behavior such as profanity, bullying, nudity, or even late night use.
  • Bark – Like VISR, you must have access to usernames and passwords. It analyzes activity and alerts you when there is a problem.

Things are much different now than when many of us were young and even very different from when the internet became a household utility. I’m the security expert that the 6 o’clock news keeps calling to speak to about the recurring story that involves an online predator taking advantage of young girls. Protect your kids today, tomorrow, and for as long as they are under your immediate care.

Apps to help keep track of what your kids are doing online

Through open communication is best, these tools can help parents who want a little extra control

As kids become more independent, we want to foster their sense of responsibility and give them room to prove themselves. But it can be difficult to navigate this natural separation, especially when kids are doing who-knows-what on their devices. There are constant questions: Where are they? Who’s contacting them? What are they doing online? Since tweens and teens are often tight-lipped about their lives, it can be tricky to get clear answers.

Though direct communication is always best, and the conversations around online safety and digital citizenship should start long before a kid becomes a teen, there are occasions when parents feel it’s necessary to monitor what kids are doing on their devices. Maybe they’ve broken your trust or you’re worried about their safety. Whatever the case, there are tools to track what your kid is up to. Be aware that spying on your kid can backfire and that kids can find a way around just about any type of tracking. But if you’re at the end of your rope or just need extra help managing your kid’s digital life, then one of these tools might work for you. To get more information, check out our advice about cell phone issues, including basic parental controls, and less invasive (and expensive) ways to limit access to content.

Bark24: Similar to VISR (see below), kids and parents need to work together to hook up accounts to the service. It also analyzes all device activity and alerts parents when a problem is found. If they get an alert, parents will see the content in question and get suggestions on how to handle it ($9/month).

Circle Home and Go: This app manages the Circle with Disney device, which pairs with your home Wi-Fi and controls all Wi-Fi-enabled devices. Can create time limits on specific apps, filter content, set bedtimes, and restrict internet access for the whole house or for individuals. Circle Go will let parents filter, limit, and track on networks outside the home Wi-Fi (the Circle device is $99, the Circle Home app is free, and the Circle Go service will be $9.95/month).

SPY24: If screen time and specific app use is your concern, this system might work for you. It lets you track your kid’s app use and limit time using the device or certain apps (free, Android-only).

Pocket Guardian: Parents get alerts when sexting, bullying, or explicit images are detected on your kid’s device, though you won’t see the actual content or who it’s from. Instead, the alert can prompt a conversation, and the app offers resources to help ($9.99–$12.99/month).

Trackidz: With this program, you don’t see specific content from your kid’s device, but you can track app installations and use, block browsers and apps, manage time in apps and on the device, block out device-free time, grant bonus time, track location, get an alert when your kid’s phone is turned off, and see your kid’s contacts. It also claims to detect cyberbullying by tracking when your kid’s device use drops dramatically, which can indicate avoidance. Setting up a geo-fence lets parents track a kid’s location and alerts them when a kid has gone outside the boundaries, and a kid can tap the power button to send an emergency message to parents (currently free, but will be $6.99).

VISR: For this one to work, a parent needs the kid’s usernames and passwords, so be aware that it’s easy for kids to set up dummy accounts. Once enabled, the tool analyzes posts and emails for bullying, profanity, nudity, violence, drugs, and late-night use and sends parents alerts when anything iffy is detected (currently free, but will be $5/month).

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